We all have been in love with someone, at some point of time in your life. If not, then at least know someone who has fallen in love. It’s one of the most amazing feeling in this world, say a lot of people in the world. It’s an amazing feeling that you have when you have had a tiring day at the office and you have someone to share all your stories with. When you go wrong in life, you have someone to comfort you.. telling you that everything will be fine.When you fail at some point of time, there is someone who will tell you that it’s okay to fail, failure teaches more than success. When you feel forlorn and lost and somebody understands you. When you are being humiliated and somebody stands up for you. When you are sick, and someone comes to your aid. If all this makes you feel go “awe, I wish I had someone like that in my life” just look around, head to the mirror closest to you and look into it. Who do you see? Obviously, yourself right?
Yes, it’s a nice feeling to fall in love with someone, but before that it’s important to fall in love with yourself. It’s very important to understand yourself. Understand the rights and wrongs of your life. Understand your happiness and your pains. Understand the things that you need to see and the things to which you need to turn a blind eye. It’s always important to understand what irritates you, and what makes you jump with joy. Before expecting someone to stand up for you, learn to stand up for yourself. It’s okay if people consider you rude and arrogant, but never let someone take that advantage of you.. never let someone humiliate you and get away with it. It’s important to be a nice person but not every nice person is treated nicely. The mentality of the people is such that if you’re a nice person, they feel they can treat you the way you want and get away with it. But never let that happen. Be nice, but when people touch that guard of self respect, burn them with the shocks that will never let them take you lightly. Stand up for your honour, before you expect someone to stand for your honour. Learn to do things that you love, before finding the one who likes the same things as you.