Yes, You need a fall!!!

We all have been in love with someone, at some point of time in your life. If not, then at least know someone who has fallen in love. It’s one of the most amazing feeling in this world, say a lot of people in the world. It’s an amazing feeling that you have when you have had a tiring day at the office and you have someone to share all your stories with. When you go wrong in life, you have someone to comfort you.. telling you that everything will be fine.When you fail at some point of time, there is someone who will tell you that it’s okay to fail, failure teaches more than success. When you feel forlorn and lost and somebody understands you. When you are being humiliated and somebody stands up for you. When you are sick, and someone comes to your aid. If all this makes you feel go “awe, I wish I had someone like that in my life” just look around, head to the mirror closest to you and look into it. Who do you see? Obviously, yourself right?

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Yes, it’s a nice feeling to fall in love with someone, but before that it’s important to fall in love with yourself. It’s very important to understand yourself. Understand the rights and wrongs of your life. Understand your happiness and your pains. Understand the things that you need to see and the things to which you need to turn a blind eye. It’s always important to understand what irritates you, and what makes you jump with joy. Before expecting someone to stand up for you, learn to stand up for yourself. It’s okay if people consider you rude and arrogant, but never let someone take that advantage of you.. never let someone humiliate you and get away with it. It’s important to be a nice person but not every nice person is treated nicely. The mentality of the people is such that if you’re a nice person, they feel they can treat you the way you want and get away with it. But never let that happen. Be nice, but when people touch that guard of self respect, burn them with the shocks that will never let them take you lightly. Stand up for your honour, before you expect someone to stand for your honour. Learn to do things that you love, before finding the one who likes the same things as you.

Before falling in love with someone, fall in love with yourself. Explore the possibilities of loving yourself. download (1)

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Just like everyone!!

Monotony is something that we’re all familiar with. Everyone knows this, everyone is the victim of this.. well some are not, some choose not to be. There are always two kinds of people in this world

  • One who love the monotony
  • Others who live with monotony

Now, let me ask you this – what is monotony? Monotony is doing the same thing at equal intervals of time in the same manner. When this happens, not everyone loves this. At this point of time when you don’t like the same thing happening everyday, you tend to get irritated with life, with yourself and this might even make you a pessimistic person. Do you want that?

Everyone goes through this stage of monotony, it spares none. Some learn to love it and some learn to deal with it, while some learn to live with this. Living with this can be a tiresome situation, it can make you question your entire existence. So, what do people do to deal with monotony? The answer is simple, do not let monotony get to you.

There are a few things you can do to remove monotony, but there are a few things, that cannot be changed immaterial of whether you like it or not. Going to office everyday, working for the same 8 hours from Monday to Friday can sure be monotonous and can make you feel bored, but there are other ways to add life to your work.

Change the route you take to your work or the means you use to travel to your work. If you go by your car everyday, try taking a bus. This will surely brighten your mood for the rest of the day.

When you’re having lunch, try having lunch at a different place rather than the same place or if you are in the habit of having lunch from the canteen, try a different counter instead of the same counter

You can also try making your cubicle look interesting than it is. Make your cubicle organised. Paste some fun posters in your cubicle. This will surely make you cheerful while you work.

Try taking a different route while coming back home, you wouldn’t feel tired in such a case when you get back home.

Break the shackles of monotony